Philemon 1:14-18

but I did not want to do anything without your consent, so that your goodness would not be, in effect, by compulsion, but of your own free will.

For perhaps it was for this reason that he was separated from you for a while, that you would have him back forever,

no longer as a slave, but more than a slave, a beloved brother, especially to me, but how much more to you, both in the flesh and in the Lord.

If then you regard me as a partner, accept him as you would me.

But if he has wronged you in any way or owes you anything, charge that to my account;