1 Timothy 3:3-7

not overindulging in wine, not a bully, but gentle, not contentious, free from the love of money.

He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity

(but if a man does not know how to manage his own household, how will he take care of the church of God?),

and not a new convert, so that he will not become conceited and fall into condemnation incurred by the devil.

And he must have a good reputation with those outside the church, so that he will not fall into disgrace and the snare of the devil.